Sunday, January 16, 2005

A Full and Complete Retraction for Pedro

Ok. It has come to my attention (well...it never did leave my attention actually) that I have misled you my loyal and steadfast readers. I'm not proud...I'm just sharing.

I toted Nelson out to be the very first boyfriend I had an orgasm with. Whereas this isn't a lie...I have been asked to set the record straight about having my very first orgasm with a partner.

This is the story of Pedro.

Pedro and I have been friends for 6 years. We were not always friends though. We started off as friends...phone pals and emailers. Then we became lovers. Then friends again. Then lovers again and now we are friends once more. I want to be clear when I say that we were lovers because we were not actually dating. This was not the romantic relationship that was going to build into something long term etc etc. We both have different ideas about what that would look like...mine usually involve having kids whereas Pedro has always been dead set against that. It is for that reason (and I suspect a few others) why we never dated, but instead became lovers.

It was so easy to become lovers with Pedro. First off...he's HOT. I'm not kidding you. This was the first man I ever saw naked that I wanted to draw. Broad shoulders, well developed chest (hairy yummm), six pack of abs, beautiful back, strong legs, tight ass and a very pretty penis. He should be a nude model. Honestly. Pedro loves his body and takes very good care of it and he should be very proud of it. He's a very healthy virile man!

Secondly, Pedro loves women. ALL women. He loves everything about women and it's very clear when you are in his presence. I met Pedro when I was at my biggest size and he never once made me feel fat. He has a way of touching you that makes you feel like the beautiful goddess that you are. It is simply amazing. That coupled with the fact that he is a really genuine guy who LISTENS while you talk and is interested in your point of view...well...it's very hard to resist him.

(Pedro if you are reading...try not to let the Ego get too big here).

Pedro has read several books on sex, probably watched his fair share of porn, he's seen artistic renditions and technical journals. I'm sure he is probably the most experienced partner I have ever been with. What this all boils down to folks is that Pedro knows his stuff! He is also a master at seduction. He can take the simplest thing and turn it into something erotic and exciting.

I cried immediately after my orgasm. Great big chest-heaving, body-shaking sobs of delight and release. Years of pent up frustration and feelings of sexual inadequacy released in a flood of wetness both above and below.

During our on and off again loverness (loverhood?) I then was able to learn how to have an orgasm pretty much every time. Pedro taught me how to slow down and enjoy the little things...kisses on the back of my neck, the inside of my arms. Plus, he let me experiment at will with whatever I felt comfortable with at the time (which I admit then wasn't much) and he never pushed me to do anything....ever.

My relationship with Pedro was more along the lines of friends with benefits. He always treated me with respect, never assumed sex was on the menu anytime he came over, and he always spent the night. That was really important to me. Plus...he's a big cuddler!! NICE.


Pedro was the inspiration for one of my monologues...with a bit of tweaking it will be up on here soon.

It may be of some interest to note that I never once had an orgasm with any of the 4 boyfriends/lovers I had in between Pedro and Nelson.

So there ya go Pedro! It's all there in grey and green :)

*SMOOCHEROO* Pedro!













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